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July 18, 2011 by Carl McDonald

Neskowin, OR to Manzanita, OR

Friendly horn taps: 1

Miles: 64

Total miles so far: 4,723

Ride Update:  We are about 51 miles from our finish line at Astoria. There is one more day until completion!  Please consider a donation now, as we complete this journey!

The Pacific shoreline at Neskowin, Oregon

We reached the coast yesterday.  And as that resulted in some small celebration, we have not finished;  We came out of the coastal range just down the road from Neskowin at the end of the day.  Neskowin is about 115 miles south of Astoria.  We completed 64 of those miles today, and barring any problems, we will finish in Astoria, Oregon tomorrow.

Today we got an old fashion drubbing from the Northern Pacific weather.  We got rained on until we were thoroughly soaked and then it rained some more.  All morning long actually.  The air was cool enough to chill us through to our bones after a couple of descents on the coastal ridges, so when we broke for lunch we were digging for dryer clothes and questioning the value of those “waterproof, but breathable” membrane rain jackets.  It seems they won’t breathe enough to keep up with us when we are exerting ourselves on the climbs, and they don’t really keep water out after a day in the rain like we had anyway.  I had my best luck with a wool jersey once the rain slackened some.  The wool blend would still insulate some when wet, and the fabric dried fairly fast in the wind.

All things considered, we have been extremely fortunate with weather on this entire trip, so we are not complaining.  The rain just makes for good memories after one is warm and dry anyway.  Right?

We were told a long time ago by a couple who had completed the Trans-Am some years before, that the days would turn into weeks and the weeks would turn into months for us while on this journey.  That is an apt description.  The experience is full immersion.  So much so, that I am just now surfacing enough to recognize it.  I recall when we approached two weeks from a projected finish, and in a blink, we were down to four days remaining.

In the middle of the ride, when we would seem to make little progress because normal measures were impossible to use, it was a bit like I was riding with my teeth clenched because it was difficult work and the daily efforts seemed like all I could muster.  Now I am wondering where it all went.  Somehow from that mid-point on, a new energy took us along and before we knew it, we are here.

Normal measures.  Now there’s an interesting topic.  I recall year two after Carlie was killed as being considerably more difficult than year one.  In year one I would think, “It’s been 123 days, and I feel like this…”  It was easy to measure and compare when I’ve never experienced 123 days after the death of my child before.  However, I found that day 437 was that much more difficult and one of the reasons is because I had no normal measure for day 437.  Who would have?  We usually count in months (only up to a year) and in anniversaries.  How do you relate to difficulties at day 437?  Who counts to 437 in the first place?  I know my teeth were clenched and I was all but hanging on.  And then..at some point I knew I’d make it.  It may have been after five years, it may have been nine.  I’m not sure, because the days turned into weeks and the weeks turned into months…  There were no normal measures, but it happened.

Not unlike this ride of ours.  Normal measures just don’t apply, but it happened.

Elephant Ear rock off the coast at Pacific City

The view from above Cape Lookout

Sunset tonight at Manzanita

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Tomorrow’s ride is dedicated to Brian Hood

Brian Hood

Brian Hood was killed by a drunk driver in September 1998 in Bend, Oregon.  Brian is pictured here in the great outdoors, definitely in his element and the place he loved best.  Brian always saw life as an adventure.  His family loves and misses Brian.  They say, “Our lives have not been, and will never be the same without him….there will always be the empty chair.”  Brian was 23 years old.

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Posted in Living the life, The mental challenge, The physical challenge, Thoughts on moving forward | 6 Comments

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  1. on July 18, 2011 at 6:59 am Dick Roth

    Congratulations! I have followed your your mental and physical journey every day. It was and is awesome.

    I can’t find the link to make another contribution?

    Dick


  2. on July 18, 2011 at 10:12 am Anne Pratt

    Thanks Carl, for dedicating this last day of your adventurous and awesome ride to Brian.

    Anne Pratt


  3. on July 18, 2011 at 11:37 am Cathey

    Carl,

    This journey has been so beautiful in many ways. The people you meet, the scenery you enjoy and the progress to your goals (physically, spiritually, fundraising) continues to be an inspiration. I have to admit that I’m a bit teary that this part of your journey is coming to a close. I know the journey will continue for a lifetime as you reflect and dissect your cycling trek. I’ll miss your observations and introspection, and I will continue to pray for you and your personal journeys.


  4. on July 18, 2011 at 5:13 pm Erik Svendsen

    HI Carl – This is Erik, I had the opportunity to meet you today (the 18th) when you finished your ride in Astoria. I was a widower at age 31 thanks to drunk driver and I truly appreciate the sacrifice and and dedication shown by you and your sister in making this ride to raise awareness and money for MADD and the fight against drunk driving. As your blog says, there are far too many of us that have suffered losses that could have been easily prevented. Thanks again, congratulations, and I hope you enjoy your time in Astoria and Oregon. God speed on your future travels. It was an honor to meet you!


  5. on July 18, 2011 at 10:16 pm chashurley

    Carl- I am going to miss the inspiration of your extraordinary tribute to Carlie. Job extraordinarily well done!

    Chuck


  6. on July 19, 2011 at 3:29 pm Everett and Renie Grubb

    What a beautiful website, Carl. We’ve loved your photos and your comments.

    Thank you for sharing your journey with us. We well remember when you lost Carlie. We pray this journey you have just taken is a part of your life you will always treasure, and that it helps others see to avoid the pitfalls that took her life.

    God bless you, Everett and Renie



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